Fair Fighting for Couples Ebook
Attention: Women or men who want to fight fair and have loving relationships
“If Disputes have turned your relationship into a challenging experience, this page may be the turning point to restore security and trust.NOW, you can have a step by step action plan to discuss and resolve any subject, without the pain that you are feeling today. “Instantly Download a professional Easy-to-Read $10.99 Guide written by a PHD.
Couples Conflict Coach highly recommends this Fair Fighting for Couples ebook!!!! It is a very professional written and useful ebook to help couples fight fair.
Yes, You Can Rediscover The Same Feelings of Being Accepted And Loved By Your Partner.
Hello,
Sometimes in life we do things without paying attention to their consequences..the way we relate to others seems to us “natural” and “the way we are.” without thinking of the necessary choices that brought us to this exact point. Nobody told you that there was a HEALTHY way to discuss shared issues, very much opposed to the DIRTY TRICKS way to defend your needs and interests, and now you and your family group are paying the price.
It’s healthy for every relationship, every marriage to include some level of disagreement and adjustment. Each person has different stories, homes and ways of thinking, and they must negotiate an agreement on how to do things together. Some couples fight more, some couples fight less, but what is really important is the way they fight. According to recent studies that compare relationships that survive, grow and deepen into a shared love, and the ones that become progressively more aggressive and ugly, the most important factor is the way they deal with the differences. Their secret is that they learn how go from “My View, your Problem” to “We share this problem”.
When winning is more important than understanding, couples self-destruct by fighting in ways that damage the trust and respect that are necessary for the relationship. They get desperate when they don’t understand each other’s needs and then resort to attacks and put downs, escalating the disputes. Couples with too many dirty tricks lose respect for each other, and come to expect only more attacks and nastiness. Their fights are random, unpredictable and, because they lack structure can easily end in more vicious attacks to self-respect. Two people who loved each other can end up destroying the same person they loved, because of the negative feelings produced by constant fighting.
Fair Fighting is a set of ground rules for handling differences and conflict in a respectful way. Since few people have learned how to handle fights well, very clear rules give couples a road map for getting through discussions in a safe way, restoring safety and trust, and blocking negative explosions.
Are you fighting dirty without realizing it?
I grew up in a household where there were no “Fair Fighting” rules. We made up our own and rarely felt heard. It took me years of training to learn how to fight fair in relationships. I want to save you alot of time and money and give you tools to begin to learn how to fight fair in a relationship so you can keep the love you have for your partner alive. Click here to find out more about how this ebook written by a PHD that can help you and your partner fight fair and start getting that loving feeling back again.
To contact a Couples Conflict Coach, click here. To purchase the ebook, click on the picture below.
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“If Disputes have turned your relationship into a challenging experience, this page may be the turning point to restore security and trust.NOW, you can have a step by step action plan to discuss and resolve any subject, without the pain that you are feeling today. “Instantly Download a professional Easy-to-Read $10.99 Guide written by a PHD.
Couples Conflict Coach highly recommends this Fair Fighting for Couples ebook!!!! It is a very professional written and useful ebook to help couples fight fair.
Yes, You Can Rediscover The Same Feelings of Being Accepted And Loved By Your Partner.
Hello,
Sometimes in life we do things without paying attention to their consequences..the way we relate to others seems to us “natural” and “the way we are.” without thinking of the necessary choices that brought us to this exact point. Nobody told you that there was a HEALTHY way to discuss shared issues, very much opposed to the DIRTY TRICKS way to defend your needs and interests, and now you and your family group are paying the price.
It’s healthy for every relationship, every marriage to include some level of disagreement and adjustment. Each person has different stories, homes and ways of thinking, and they must negotiate an agreement on how to do things together. Some couples fight more, some couples fight less, but what is really important is the way they fight. According to recent studies that compare relationships that survive, grow and deepen into a shared love, and the ones that become progressively more aggressive and ugly, the most important factor is the way they deal with the differences. Their secret is that they learn how go from “My View, your Problem” to “We share this problem”.
When winning is more important than understanding, couples self-destruct by fighting in ways that damage the trust and respect that are necessary for the relationship. They get desperate when they don’t understand each other’s needs and then resort to attacks and put downs, escalating the disputes. Couples with too many dirty tricks lose respect for each other, and come to expect only more attacks and nastiness. Their fights are random, unpredictable and, because they lack structure can easily end in more vicious attacks to self-respect. Two people who loved each other can end up destroying the same person they loved, because of the negative feelings produced by constant fighting.
Fair Fighting is a set of ground rules for handling differences and conflict in a respectful way. Since few people have learned how to handle fights well, very clear rules give couples a road map for getting through discussions in a safe way, restoring safety and trust, and blocking negative explosions.
Are you fighting dirty without realizing it?
I grew up in a household where there were no “Fair Fighting” rules. We made up our own and rarely felt heard. It took me years of training to learn how to fight fair in relationships. I want to save you alot of time and money and give you tools to begin to learn how to fight fair in a relationship so you can keep the love you have for your partner alive. Click here to find out more about how this ebook written by a PHD that can help you and your partner fight fair and start getting that loving feeling back again.
To contact a Couples Conflict Coach, click here. To purchase the ebook, click on the picture below.
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1000 Questions for Couples
Couples Conflict Coach recommends "1000 Questions for Couples by Michael Webb. For the last 17 years Michael has helped millions of couples, like you, learn to have fulfilling and successful relationships that last a lifetime. Michael has published over 18 books and been on many news channels.
"These questions will uncover secrets that could sabotage your relationship and will draw you closer than you ever imagined..."
It wasn't long ago that a friend found out that his wife had been molested as a child. It was a secret that she had hidden which, until she revealed it, had caused significant problems FOR YEARS in their relationship.
"An estimated 83% of divorces would not take place
if couples asked each other the right questions"
Have you ever said any of these things about your relationship?
___ I miss the great conversations we used to have.
___We seem to have run out of things to talk about.
___ I am worried about our long distance relationship making it.
___ How do I really know if he/she is the one for me?
___ Meeting people is awkward for me. I never know what to say.
___ Sometimes I feel like I am married to a stranger.
___ I feel like we never have deep conversations.
___ It is hard for me to share things in the past (or fantasies or dreams)
YOUR COMMUNICATION PROBLEMS - SOLVED!
Michael has put together 1,000 of the most important questions couples should ask each other. These are questions that go beyond small talk and simply making conversation like you will find in most "questions" books. You will NOT find questions like "if you were a color, what color would you be" or "what is your most embarrassing moment".
All of these questions will help you to really know the thoughts, feelings and desires of the one you are with. After going through these questions, you will really know the things your sweetheart is passionate about. You will know how you can give them much joy and happiness. You will also discover what irritates them and makes them blue.
Surprisingly, answering these questions will significantly cut down on the fighting, bickering and arguments.
Click here to find out more or to purchase the book.
"These questions will uncover secrets that could sabotage your relationship and will draw you closer than you ever imagined..."
It wasn't long ago that a friend found out that his wife had been molested as a child. It was a secret that she had hidden which, until she revealed it, had caused significant problems FOR YEARS in their relationship.
"An estimated 83% of divorces would not take place
if couples asked each other the right questions"
Have you ever said any of these things about your relationship?
___ I miss the great conversations we used to have.
___We seem to have run out of things to talk about.
___ I am worried about our long distance relationship making it.
___ How do I really know if he/she is the one for me?
___ Meeting people is awkward for me. I never know what to say.
___ Sometimes I feel like I am married to a stranger.
___ I feel like we never have deep conversations.
___ It is hard for me to share things in the past (or fantasies or dreams)
YOUR COMMUNICATION PROBLEMS - SOLVED!
Michael has put together 1,000 of the most important questions couples should ask each other. These are questions that go beyond small talk and simply making conversation like you will find in most "questions" books. You will NOT find questions like "if you were a color, what color would you be" or "what is your most embarrassing moment".
All of these questions will help you to really know the thoughts, feelings and desires of the one you are with. After going through these questions, you will really know the things your sweetheart is passionate about. You will know how you can give them much joy and happiness. You will also discover what irritates them and makes them blue.
Surprisingly, answering these questions will significantly cut down on the fighting, bickering and arguments.
Click here to find out more or to purchase the book.
Magic Relationship Words
101 words, phrases & sentence starters to help you say it right every time!
You may not know it yet, but...
There are actually certain words you can say in certain ways to your partner, spouse or lover, that when you say them, you'll not only reduce or eliminate the possibility of either one of you shutting down or getting upset -- but using these words also makes you instantly feel more understood, more loved and connected than you ever thought possible.
We're Susie and Otto Collins, Relationship expert coaches, and as you think about your current and past relationships, we'd like to ask you the following questions...
Click here to find out about how Magic Relationship Words can make a difference in your relationship!
There are actually certain words you can say in certain ways to your partner, spouse or lover, that when you say them, you'll not only reduce or eliminate the possibility of either one of you shutting down or getting upset -- but using these words also makes you instantly feel more understood, more loved and connected than you ever thought possible.
We're Susie and Otto Collins, Relationship expert coaches, and as you think about your current and past relationships, we'd like to ask you the following questions...
- Have you ever been in a relationship situation where you've said the WRONG thing to someone and you wished you could have immediately taken back what you said because of all the problems/fight that it caused?
- Have you ever just not known what to say to someone to make a situation work out and you just kept quiet because you didn't want to cause problems by saying the wrong thing or saying something that could be taken the wrong way?
- Have you ever wished that you knew what to say to your partner or spouse before you said something that would cause the two of you to become disconnected or even more distant?
- Have you ever struggled to find the right words to say to your partner to explain yourself and your feelings?
- And finally...Have you ever wanted to feel more understood by the people closest to you in your life?
Click here to find out about how Magic Relationship Words can make a difference in your relationship!