Welcome to Couples Conflict Coach!
My name is Cathy and I am a Couples Conflict Coach. I help couples identify problem areas and breakdowns in communication. I help you listen to each other and problem solve together. You don't have to spend years in therapy.
Some couples have such a major breakdown in communication that they no longer are able to have a constructive discussion. They are so angry and hurt that arguing and blaming each other is starting to happen more and more each day. Often one of the partners walks away very upset, or become silent or passive at any sign of conflict. Additional conflicts start to build on the first one the more time goes by without resolution. Your relationship may be at this stage. Or, you could just be having minor problems and don't want them to get worse. In either situation, I can help.
Finding fault with a partner is easy; seeing and changing our own contributions to relationship or marriage conflict is a bit more challenging..You need to really ask yourself. Do I want to be "Right" or do I want to make the relationship work? Does your partner want to be "Right" or does your partner want to make this work?
If both of you want to make this work but may not know how, I can work with you as your Couples Conflict Coach.
I do not pick sides. I remain neutral because this is not about one of you winning. It is about the two of you collaborating to make things work.
f you’re committed to having the relationship you’ve always wanted or want to save your marriage, I can work with you and your partner to move past communication challenges, power struggles or conflict that can destroy your relationship. Below are some of the outcomes of working with a Couples Conflict Coach.
Imagine each day feeling that your partner loves you, respects you, appreciates you, and is committed to the relationship. You also feel connected and close to your partner. Looking at your partner brings a smile to your face. Life is starting to feel wonderful again! You can have that feeling too, and probably a lot faster than you think
Please click here for services. If you live in the San Jose Bay Area, I can meet you in downtown San Jose. If you are not able to travel, we can have our coaching calls over the phone. If you prefer coaching with Dr. John Gray's online program, click here to find out more.
You can also "Like" Conflict Skills Coach on Facebook to receive free weekly tips and resources!
Some couples have such a major breakdown in communication that they no longer are able to have a constructive discussion. They are so angry and hurt that arguing and blaming each other is starting to happen more and more each day. Often one of the partners walks away very upset, or become silent or passive at any sign of conflict. Additional conflicts start to build on the first one the more time goes by without resolution. Your relationship may be at this stage. Or, you could just be having minor problems and don't want them to get worse. In either situation, I can help.
Finding fault with a partner is easy; seeing and changing our own contributions to relationship or marriage conflict is a bit more challenging..You need to really ask yourself. Do I want to be "Right" or do I want to make the relationship work? Does your partner want to be "Right" or does your partner want to make this work?
If both of you want to make this work but may not know how, I can work with you as your Couples Conflict Coach.
I do not pick sides. I remain neutral because this is not about one of you winning. It is about the two of you collaborating to make things work.
f you’re committed to having the relationship you’ve always wanted or want to save your marriage, I can work with you and your partner to move past communication challenges, power struggles or conflict that can destroy your relationship. Below are some of the outcomes of working with a Couples Conflict Coach.
- Fight Fair: Learn to talk straight, set boundaries and stand up for yourself in a way that is loving and creates connection
- Put the past in the past: Stop sabotaging your relationship with past unresolved childhood issues or ex partners that manifest as recurring patterns in your relationship
- Stop the push/pull Dynamic: One person doesn't have to keep chasing the other for attention while the other withdraws . Both of you can get your needs met.
- Learn to manage Conflict: Learn new communication skills that can have you move quickly through conflict and on to enjoying life together
- Feel Safe and Understood: Learn to understand and appreciate each other’s unique personality traits. Create a safe space that welcomes intimacy.
- Get Your Needs Met: Discover both of your needs, wants and requirements and learn how to get them met. Learn how to balance your partnership while maintaining your individual self and not giving up on your needs.
- Inspiring Future: Create a mutual, inspiring vision that will support your relationship even through challenging times. The vision will have you moving forward and not backwards.
- Create Emotional trust and Intimacy: Learn how to quickly build emotional intimacy with your partner that keeps you connected.
Imagine each day feeling that your partner loves you, respects you, appreciates you, and is committed to the relationship. You also feel connected and close to your partner. Looking at your partner brings a smile to your face. Life is starting to feel wonderful again! You can have that feeling too, and probably a lot faster than you think
Please click here for services. If you live in the San Jose Bay Area, I can meet you in downtown San Jose. If you are not able to travel, we can have our coaching calls over the phone. If you prefer coaching with Dr. John Gray's online program, click here to find out more.
You can also "Like" Conflict Skills Coach on Facebook to receive free weekly tips and resources!